Valent　Lee　　李中瑩

 

生命只給你時(shí)間與空間。如何填滿它是你自己的事。
Life provides you with time and space. It’s up to you to fill it.

快樂的秘密并不是擁有更多，而是渴求更少。
The secret of happiness is not having more, but wanting less.

態(tài)度的背后是你認(rèn)為事情該怎么樣。態(tài)度只是你的主觀的外殼。
Underneath attitude are your beliefs, values and rules. Your attitude is only their shell.

沒有任何信念在所有的情況里絕對(duì)有效。
No belief can be absolutely effective in all the situations.

從來沒有一句話能說清楚它本身包含的意思。
The words of a sentence cannot depict all the meaning in that sentence.

“敢問路在何方？……路在腳下”
“If I may ask where the road is? ……The road is right beneath your feet.”

在這個(gè)世界上，除了自己的感覺外，沒有什么是真的。
Nothing other than your own feelings is true in this world.

梅花的高傲，來自它選擇在最冷的時(shí)間開花。
The plum flower is proud, because it chooses to blossom in the coldest moment.

大自然的法則是：每當(dāng)你說事情 “必須這樣”，它便給你一個(gè)例外。
Nature’s law: an exception always arise when one expects things to happen a certain way.

因?yàn)槲覀儾⒉煌昝�，所以我們沒有資格要求世界完美。
Because we are not perfect, so we have no right in asking for a perfect world.

沒有“必須”便沒有弱點(diǎn)。沒有弱點(diǎn)的人，別人是無法攻擊的。
A person who does not say “I must” has no weakness. Nobody can attack a person who has no weakness.

事實(shí)不等于真相。
FACTS≠TRUTH ！

當(dāng)你堅(jiān)持把注意力和思想放在問題上，你將看不到身邊眾多的機(jī)會(huì)。
When you keep your eyes and mind on the problem, you will not see the many opportunities around you.

很多人寧愿生活在痛苦中，也不愿解決自己的問題。
Many people prefer living in pain than to have their problems solved.

 

“擺脫”的唯一辦法是 “深入”。
The only way “Out” is “In ”.

恐懼使你不敢面對(duì)它；而不能面對(duì)它，正是你的恐懼的來源。
Your fear prevents you from facing it, and yet not facing it is the cause of your fear.

任何內(nèi)心清楚的事，總可以用20個(gè)字說出來。若不可以，只是未曾透徹思考而已。
Anything that is very clear inside your mind, may be said within 20 words. If not, it is only because you have not thought it through thoroughly.

壓力來自感覺自己的能力比事情所需要的小。
Pressure comes from feeling that one’s strength is less than what the task requires.

“困難”是以為得到的比需要付出的少。
Difficulty comes from thinking the gain is less than the cost.

“恐懼”是不愿付出以為需要付出的代價(jià)。
Fear is not willing to pay the presumed price.

憤怒給人力量去改變一個(gè)不能接受的情況。
Anger yields power to change a situation that is not acceptable.

悲哀讓我們更為珍惜尚且擁有的東西，包括回憶。
Sadness makes us value more what we still possess, including what’s in our memory.

軟弱的感覺，來自把注意力放在自己不能控制的東西。
The feeling of weakness comes from focusing on things that we cannot control.

唯一肯定可以與你度過一生的是你自己，因?yàn)槌四阕约和�，沒有任何人是你能夠控制的。
The only one you can be sure to go through your life together is yourself, because apart from yourself .you can control nobody.

我們行事的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)，從來都只憑自己腦里認(rèn)為世界應(yīng)該是這樣，而不是真實(shí)的是怎樣。
We always operate according to our map of the world inside our mind, and not from what the world really is.

智慧就是去接受。當(dāng)你能夠接受世界上的一切，你便有最大的智慧。
Wisdom is to accept.When you can accept everything that happens in the world, you will have supreme wisdom.

一個(gè)難以進(jìn)入情緒的人，亦難以從情緒中擺脫出來。
One who has difficulty to get into an emotion, would be difficult to get out of one also.

每天我都學(xué)到新的東西，使我改變了一些昨天的信念。
Every day I learn something new that makes me change something I used to believe yesterday.

山不轉(zhuǎn)水轉(zhuǎn)。
When the mountain does not turn, the water turns.

你不能改變這個(gè)世界。但你總可以改變你對(duì)這個(gè)世界的看法。
The world does not change, but your perception of it can .

站在谷底的人，無論朝哪個(gè)方向走，都只會(huì)走得更高。
A person standing at the bottom of a valley, no matter which direction he chooses, he could only go higher.

你不嘗試怎會(huì)知道？
How can you know if you don’t try?

每當(dāng)我們對(duì)事情做出判斷，我們便看不到真相。
Whenever we make judgments on a event, we would not be able to see the truth in it.

我可以接受打輸?shù)慕Y(jié)果，但絕不能容許自己不去打。
I can live with losing the fight, but I cannot live with not fighting.

勇氣不是沒有恐懼。勇氣是，縱然有恐懼，還能堅(jiān)持下去。
Courage is not without fear. Courage is, in spite of fear, one can still move on .

迷惘使你學(xué)得更多，而清晰使你使用得更好。
Confusion makes you learn more, and clarity enables you to use better.

學(xué)習(xí)的第一步總是迷惘混亂，因?yàn)槟闶菑囊阎呷胛粗念I(lǐng)域。
The first step of learning is always confusion ,because you have moved from the known to the unknown

用來衡量某件事應(yīng)否做的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)只有一個(gè)；那是否使我在三贏的基礎(chǔ)上更接近我的人生目標(biāo)?
The sole criterion to determine whether one should do something or not:
Does it bring me closer to my goals in life, on the win-win-win basis?

沒有方向的人是因?yàn)樗麄儧]有目標(biāo)。
People have no direction because they have no destination.

光靠滿腔熱血，不會(huì)使革命成功，只能制造烈士。
Passion alone cannot win the revolution; Passion just makes martyrs.

事情從來都沒有失敗，除非你已經(jīng)決定中止嘗試。
There is no failure until one decides to stop trying.

無論你說你能夠做到抑或不能做到，你都是對(duì)的，因?yàn)榭刂颇阕约旱臋?quán)力在你的手里。
Whether you say you can or you cannot, you are both right, because you have the control of yourself in your own hands .

我們不能要求世界完美；但是我們可以在不完美的世界里取得自己的一份成功快樂。
We cannot demand a perfect world; but we can have our success and happiness in this imperfect world .

過去已成歷史，明天只是個(gè)謎，只有今天最實(shí)在，因?yàn)樗且环荻Y物。
The past is history, tomorrow a mystery. Today is a gift, this is why it is called the Present .

“虛偽”就是：為自己而做的事，貼上“為他人而做”的標(biāo)簽。
“Hypocrisy” is a “for myself” behavior labeled as “for the others ”.

尊重一個(gè)人就是接受他的信念，價(jià)值觀和規(guī)條。
Respecting a person is accepting his beliefs, values and rules.

不要在導(dǎo)師身上找尋上帝。
Don’t look God in your teacher.

兩個(gè)人相同之處使他們能夠相處；兩個(gè)人不同之處，卻使他們能夠成長(zhǎng)。
Similarities between two persons enable them to get along；however, their differences enable them to grow .

兩人在一起時(shí)唯一的意義是幫助對(duì)方成長(zhǎng)；當(dāng)這個(gè)意義中止時(shí)，也就是他們應(yīng)該分開的時(shí)候了。
The only meaning for any two persons staying together is to help each other to grow. When this meaning ceases to exist，it is the time for them to part .

你說得多對(duì)沒有用，對(duì)方是否聽得明白更重要。
In communication, however right you are in what you say is irrelevant ,more important is whether the other person understands the message or not .

從表情及行為可以清楚知道對(duì)方內(nèi)心是怎樣一回事；他說的話只不過是混淆你而已。
expression_rs and behavior review the truth, words are there only to confuse you .

給別人空間，就是接受他們與你的不同處。當(dāng)我們能夠接受與自己不同的人，我們也就成長(zhǎng)了。
Giving other people space is accepting their differences.
When we can accept people who are different from us ,we are growing .

“春風(fēng)化雨，潤(rùn)物無聲”
——這是愛的最高境界。
The highest form of expressing love is like the breeze and rain-they serve without saying .

父母的關(guān)愛，應(yīng)該是提供空間讓孩子成長(zhǎng)，而不是妨礙孩子成長(zhǎng)。
Parents’ caring should provide the space for children to grow up; and not to prevent children from growing .

不要選擇一個(gè)只會(huì)在平靜的海洋中航行的船長(zhǎng)。
Don’t choose a captain who has sailed only calm water .

“最好”是終點(diǎn)。只要你準(zhǔn)備走下去，應(yīng)該是不斷追求“更好”。
“The Best” is an end .As long as you intend to continue, you could always pursue “better ”.

戰(zhàn)勝轉(zhuǎn)變的唯一秘訣是：學(xué)得比轉(zhuǎn)變帶來得更多更快。
The only way to beat changes is: to learn more and faster than what the changes bring.

不要告訴我為什么做不到；告訴我如何做得到，因?yàn)槟遣攀悄愦嬖诘脑颉?br /> Don’t tell me why it cannot be done；tell me how it can be done ,because that is why you are here.

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